March 6, 2012 by Female Science Professor
The following article is cross-post with the express permission from the blog Female Science Professor. The opinions expressed herein are those of the author, and not necessarily those of The New Agenda.
In Scientopia, I discuss a letter from an undergraduate researcher who is now anxious about her interactions with her lab’s PI, and invite comments from readers who might be able to help her with her difficult situation.
This student has been doing research in a lab at a large university for several years, and her work is going well — so well, in fact, that she recently gave a presentation on her research at a conference. The conference was far from her university, so the various members of the research group who attended the conference stayed in a hotel. The student was pleased to get to know the PI of her research group better at this conference, as she seldom interacts with him in the course of her research in his lab. Her happiness at attending a conference, presenting her results, and having more interaction with the PI turned into anxiety when he texted her to ask if she wanted him to come to her hotel room one night. She did not text him back, and she has not talked to him or seen him since this incident.
This part is in the student’s own words:
I really enjoy the research that I’m working on, and I love the group I work with, so quitting and finding another paid undergrad position seems unreasonable. I wouldn’t put it past my PI to never speak of it again, but if he does, I’m afraid I might say something wrong. .. I want to go to grad school and expect to get a letter of recommendation from him in the near future when I start applying.
Have you ever been in a situation like this? What should I do?
I know that this letter will seem very familiar to those who have experienced similar situations and/or who have read about other incidents like this in other posts. I wanted to post this anyway so that this student can get a range of responses and advice, which I expect may range from “Don’t do anything” to “Report him. He’s a creep and may be doing this to other students.”
Although in some ways the situation is clear-cut (professors should not proposition their students), it is a difficult situation for the student. She has been doing her work, doing it well, and getting excited enough about research to want to apply to graduate school. Now she is worried and doesn’t know what to do.
I hate to think about this student feeling anxious when she is doing her research, and worrying about asking this professor for a letter of recommendation for graduate school. Will this incident factor into his opinion of the student? Unless the professor proactively apologizes sincerely to the student, says he has never done anything like this before, and affirms that he thinks highly of her work, she is likely to worry about this until she graduates, and perhaps beyond.
The student worries about saying “something wrong” if the PI brings up the incident. If he does bring it up, I think that saying “That made me uncomfortable” is a perfectly reasonable thing to say, whether or not he apologizes. It tells him that he crossed a boundary he shouldn’t have, and that his behavior had consequences. An undergraduate student shouldn’t have to tell that to a professor, but this entire situation shouldn’t have happened in the first place. If the student then turns the conversation to research issues and/or career plans (graduate school), maybe they will be back on track with their professional relationships.
Even so, I think it might be worth asking around about this professor, especially if the student feels comfortable talking to others in the research group — a female grad student or postdoc, for example. If this professor is in a habit of propositioning his female students and creating a climate of anxiety in the research lab as a result, this information needs to get to someone in authority, if not the department chair, then an organization on campus that can provide information and advice. It would be good if the text messages are still on the phone.
But mostly I hope that readers who have dealt with similar situations can provide some ideas and support, to help this student through this anxious time.