Women’s Equality Day: What the Heck Do I Tell My Daughter?

August 30, 2011 by

Reprinted from The Huffington Post with the express permission of the author. The opinions expressed herein are those of the author, and not necessarily those of The New Agenda.

Today [August 26, 2011] is Women’s Equality Day. At the center of my mind today is:


What the heck do I tell my daughter?

How do I tell my daughter about the fact that despite many gains made for women’s (and mothers’) equality, women still don’t earn equal pay for equal work? Women now make, on average, only 77 cents for every dollar that men make for full-time work.

Not equal.

How do I tell my daughter that there’s rampant hiring and pay discrimination against mothers? While overall women make 77 cents to every man’s dollar, women without children make 90 cents to a man’s dollar, mothers make 73 cents, and single mothers make only 60 cents to a man’s dollar. Women of color experience increased wage hits on top of this. Further, studies have found that with EQUAL resumes, women with children are 100% less likely to be hired than women without children. Another study found when moms are offered positions, on average, they are offered starting salaries that are $11,000 less than those offered to non-mothers.

Not equal. These stats keep me up at night, particularly given that 80% of American women become mothers by the time they are 44 years old.

What do I tell my daughter about the fact that women don’t yet have equal representation in Congress? Women are 50.7% of our population, yet women comprise only 17% of Congress. This low representation of women in our national legislature ranks us 70th of all nations, behind Turkmenistan, Bosnia and Herzegovina. Our nation is missing out. The Harvard Business Review recently reported, “If a group includes more women, its collective intelligence rises.”

Not equal. There’s definitely no reason to celebrate Women’s Equality Day here.

And how do I tell my daughter that instead of rising, the very small number of female CEOs is falling, despite the fact that women are now 50% of the labor force for the first time in history. There were 15 female CEOs in the Fortune 500 last year, and now there are only 12 female CEOs in the Fortune 500 companies. That’s 12 women CEOs out of 500. Not good. This drop is despite the fact that a 19-year Pepperdine University survey of Fortune 500 companies showed that those with the best record of promoting women outperformed the competition by anywhere from 41% to 116%.

Not equal in the business sector yet either, which is deeply troubling because our economy needs every bit of entrepreneurship possible, and disproportionately leaving out women hampers our nation’s success.

There’s certainly not much in the way of news to celebrate on Women’s Equality Day.



So, what the heck DO I tell my daughter?

Then it hit me. I know what to say: I’m telling my daughter that I’m fighting for her and for all the daughters in our nation on Women’s Equality Day.

And one of the ways I’m fighting is by pushing for policies that promote family economic security, which have been shown to reduce the wage gaps, while also helping businesses and taxpayers save money in the long run — policies like paid family leave, access to early learning, sick days, health care, and more. I’m fighting by advocating for policies like the Paycheck Fairness Act and the Healthy Families Act,

I’m fighting for every girl and boy to have equal opportunities to thrive.

And as I fight, I’ll be telling my daughter that I’m not alone, and that I’m joining this fight with the more than million members of MomsRising.org, as well as with over a hundred aligned organizations. And, I’ll tell her that I’m also joining this fight with the voices of women, daughters, and mothers across the nation who are speaking out on Women’s Equality Day in a #HERvotes Blog Carnival to assert that they are joining together to combat extremist attacks against women’s health and economic security. You can read more here.

For Women’s Equality Day, I’m telling my daughter to fight.

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