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20 Reasons Why We Still Need The “F” Word

August 25, 2010

by Lynn HarriscloseAuthor: Lynn Harris Name: Lynn Harris
Email: lynn@harriscoach.com
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The following article is cross-posted from Unwritten Rules with permission of the author. The opinions expressed herein are those of the author, and not necessarily those of The New Agenda.

In our privileged world “Feminism” has become a dirty word. For most western young women, to be called a Feminist is an insult.

femMy son and his girlfriends associate Feminism with anti-men and women who wear unattractive clothes. To them the “F” word is, at best, dated and no longer relevant.

In the U.S., Feminists have become divided along Party lines with women on the right and left fighting amongst themselves – which isn’t helping the feminist cause.

This is why The New Agenda is campaigning against sexism and for collaboration across the political divide on a “Pro-Women” platform. As Amy Siskind, President of The New Agenda, stated in The Huffington Post, “why should we care whether it’s Republican or Democratic women (or both) who lead us to gender equality?”

I don’t really care whether we call it Feminism or Pro-Women.

What I do care about is that the job of Feminism is far from done, and the in-fighting amongst feminists is distracting us from the many urgent reasons why we need Feminism, or the Pro-Women Movement, now more than ever.

Here are 20 of those reasons:

  1. Approximately once every ten seconds, a girl somewhere in the world is pinned down. Her legs are pulled apart, and a local woman with no medical training uses a knife or razor blade to slice off some or all of the girl’s genitals. In most cases, without anesthetic.
  2. Of the estimated 300,000 child soldiers around the world, about 40% are girls and most are sexually abused.
  3. An estimated one hundred million girls worldwide are involved in child labor.
  4. More than 900 million girls and women are living on less than a dollar a day.
  5. More girls have been killed in the last 50 years, precisely because they were girls, than men were killed in all the battles of the twentieth century. (Read this one again to make sure you really got it.)
  6. Female infanticide persists in many countries, and often it is mothers who kill their own daughters.
  7. One American-sponsored abstinence-only approach to controlling the spread of AIDS, consists of handing out heart-shaped lollipops inscribed with the message: DON’T BE A SUCKER! SAVE SEX FOR MARRIAGE. Then the session leader invites girls to suck on the lollipops and explains:  “Your body is a wrapped lollipop. When you have sex with a man, he unwraps your lollipop and sucks on it. It may feel great at the time, but, unfortunately, when he’s done with you, all you have left for your next partner is a poorly wrapped, saliva-fouled sucker.”
  8. Approximately 730,000 American teenage girls will get pregnant this year.
  9. When a group of girls were interviewed on 20/20, ABC’s primetime news magazine, and asked if they’d rather be fat or lose an arm, they unanimously answered that they’d rather lose an arm.
  10. The mortality rate associated with anorexia nervosa is twelve times as high as the death rate of all causes of death for American females aged fifteen to twenty-four.
  11. Far more women and girls are sold into brothels each year in the early twenty-first century than African slaves were sold into slave plantations each year in the eighteenth or nineteenth centuries.
  12. Approximately one third of women worldwide face beatings in the home. Women aged fifteen through forty four are more likely to be maimed or die from male violence than from cancer, malaria, traffic accidents, and war combined.
  13. A major study by the World Health Organization found that in most countries, between 30% and 60% of women had experienced physical or sexual violence by a husband or boyfriend.
  14. Grand Mufti Sheikh Abdulaziz, a leading religious authority in Saudi Arabia, declared in 2004: “Allowing women to mix with men is the root of every evil and catastrophe.”
  15. It is increasingly common for men in South Asia to hurl sulfuric acid into the faces of girls or women who have rejected them. The acid melts the skin and sometimes the bones underneath; when it strikes the eyes, the women are blinded.
  16. In South Africa, rape has become so endemic, that some women protect themselves by inserting a device called a Rapex. It’s a tube, with barbs inside. The woman inserts it like a tampon and any man who tries to rape her impales himself on the barbs and must go to an emergency room to have the Rapex removed.
  17. In 2008 the United Nations formally declared rape a “weapon of war.”  In one of its reports it claimed that in parts of Liberia during the civil war, 90% of girls and women over the age of three were sexually abused. Major General Patrick Cammaert, a former UN force commander, said: “It has probably become more dangerous to be a woman than a soldier in an armed conflict.”
  18. 122 million women around the world want contraception and can’t get it. Up to 40% of all pregnancies globally are unplanned or unwanted – and almost half of those result in induced abortions.
  19. The equivalent of five jumbo jets’ worth of women die in labor each day. The World Health Organization estimates that 536,000 women perished in pregnancy or childbirth in 2005, a toll that has hardly changed in 30 years.
  20. It would take an estimated $9 billion a year to provide all effective interventions for maternal and newborn health to 95% of the world’s population. In contrast, the world spends $40 billion per year on dog food.

Stand up and be counted

It’s not sexy to be a feminist; it never has been. You won’t be the most popular girl in the room if you have the courage to use the “F” word or take a Pro-Women stance.

But Feminism, and what it stands for, is needed as much now as it was a hundred years ago when women fought for the right to vote.

Of course we must continue to support women in our own countries who want to lead governments and organizations – we still have our own battles to fight.

But even more important, we need to support our sisters worldwide who are fighting for their lives and their fundamental human rights.

5 things you can do right now:

  1. Start the discussion – forward this article and argue about it with others (women and men).
  2. Read “Half The Sky. Turning Oppression Into Opportunity For Women Worldwide” by Nicholas Kristof and Sheryl WuDunn. When you’ve recovered from the shock of what you’ve read – get angry about it.
  3. Be inspired by watching Isabel Allende’s passionate TED talk
  4. Support women survivors of war and help them to rebuild their communities through Women for Women International.
  5. If you think the term “Feminism” is divisive, working against rather than for us – join The New Agenda and support it’s collaborative, “Pro-Women” approach to gender equality.

Information in this blog courtesy of:

Half The Sky. Turning oppression into opportunity for women worldwide by Nicholas Kristof and Sheryl WuDunn

I Am An Emotional Creature. The Secret Life Of Girls Around The World by Eve Ensler

Corporate Women Directors International 2010 Report: Women Board Directors of the 2009 Fortune Global 200.

Women in National Parliaments: World Classification

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  • Bes said:

    Many young people should find this article motivating.

    August 25, 2010 at 9:45 am
  • kiuku said:

    Any woman who falls for the male divisive tactics against Feminism..first of all let me just say she’s falling for male comradery (which is fleeting for her at best), to be offered friendship on a seemingly equal level with males; her -only- prospects for a secure financial future are through dating and marriage. She depends on her family for an education that does not get her secure employment but needs a second income from a male through dating later in adulthood. The women who are smart enough to declare themselves Feminists actually work and have jobs and have led independent lives, independent of fathers dating and marriage. The rest are just dumb ho’s.

    August 25, 2010 at 12:54 pm
  • kiuku said:

    I have the solution for any woman who says she’s agaist Feminism. Tell her to get a job and live -on her own-; no dating for two years. She’ll be homeless after 6 months

    August 25, 2010 at 1:25 pm
  • Janis said:

    Reason #1: Women still live in fear of using it.

    August 25, 2010 at 1:40 pm
  • Janis said:

    Kiuku, how am I homeless?

    August 25, 2010 at 2:32 pm
  • kiuku said:

    Janis, you’re a feminist. Isn’t my logic most sound?

    August 25, 2010 at 3:25 pm
  • kiuku said:

    I think that the antifeminist women should be a little more honest about their sentiments. It’s very easy to think that you are capable of doing something until you actually have to do it yourself. From the outside it looks very easy, and I think women in general should be more honest about where their resources come from: males. I know that men absolutely will not share resources with a woman unless she dated him, or his friend. In highschool granted it’s a little different. If these women are not living with mom and dad (emphasis on dad) then they are absolutely living with their boyfriends and getting a second income from him. Granted he is also getting a second income from her, but generally speaking women make less than men. He wouldn’t be homeless;she would.

    It’s this kind of resource gathering from men that leads women to be blind, to actually think she is choosing a certain lifestyle and that she could be independent; that is having -never- slept with a male. And so she sees antifeminism as a modern ideological choice.

    My other solution is that please, women, if you are anti “f” word, please stop getting higher educations and stop working for second incomes. If you’re going to live with yoru boyfriends or your mommy and daddy and get married and be unemployed for periods longer than 2 months, just stop and be a real antifeminist and htat is stop educating yourselves and working. You drive down the worth of educations. You drive down the worth of women’s labor.

    August 25, 2010 at 3:55 pm
  • Janis said:

    “I think women in general should be more honest about where their resources come from: males.”

    I’ve known far too many women who got through college on their own — some of them as single mothers. They busted their asses to get their educations, and did it with no one’s help but theirs. Others were the children of single mothers who had to work and take out loans. They clawed their way up that cliff with bloody fingertips, and there’s nothing feminist about acting like their victories didn’t exist.

    We are not doing well in this country, but neither are we at the “starve on the street or whore yourself out if you’re single” stage.

    August 25, 2010 at 7:21 pm
  • kiuku said:

    Janis you’re completely missing the point. Anyone who has to “bust their ass”, and you really have to bust your ass to do it on your own, aren’t going to be anti-feminist. A woman who is anti-feminist has the privilege to be antifeminist, her dumb family and boyfriend and then husband.

    August 26, 2010 at 1:40 pm
  • kiuku said:

    then on top of that, to add insult to injury, these anti-feminist man-milkers have the gaul to pretend -as if- they got it on their own, -as if- they are entitled to an education and take a second income driving down the worth of all women’s labor and higher education in general. These anti-feminist women and their discriminatory male family members made education a novelty.

    August 26, 2010 at 1:42 pm
  • Lo said:

    kiuku, your hostility and gross generalizations discredit you.

    August 31, 2010 at 12:06 am
  • Kanger said:

    I agree. Kiuku’s comments are seem generally irrational and hostile to me. The goal of this article, and the goal of a pro-women’s movement, should be to make a world where women are safe and have equal opportunities. Let’s keep the focus there, and I think you will find that all women would agree with that mission.

    September 1, 2010 at 7:08 am

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